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Three People in Masks Engaged in Marriage and Family Counseling Session

A Blessing in Disguise

How has a failure, or apparent failure, set you up for later success? When I was a young man, I developed a very serious mental illness. I struggled with this illness for a long time, up until very recently. When I got sick, I had no idea how my Blessed

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Counselor Comforting a Distressed Teenager During a Session on a Sofa

Son of a Famous Power

What is your middle name? Does it carry any special meaning/significance? A while back, I was researching the meaning of my three names. My middle name, Rodriguez, which was my Mom’s maiden name, means “son of a famous power.” The suffix “-ez” in my middle name means “son of,” as

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Two People Holding Hands During a Counseling Session in Upland

My Cloud of Witnesses

Who are your favorite people to be around? My favorite people to be around include my Wife, my Mother-in-Law, my Mom, my Siblings, my Extended Family, and my Friends, many of whom we lead in Bible Study. This is my cloud of witnesses. I have known mostly Everyone in this

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Therapist Talking to a Woman During a Marriage and Family Counseling Session

Descent and Ascent

If there were a biography about you, what would the title be? My life has been marked by an illness that is in its 39th year. Although I won’t identify it directly here, suffice it to say that it is a type of mental illness. Beginning early in my life,

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Group of Young Adults Reading and Conversing in a Cozy Living Room

A Traditional Treat at Christmas

What’s your favorite thing to cook? Probably going back centuries, the Mexican people (and other cultures, as well) prepare a wonderful treat, usually at Christmastime. I’m talking about tamales. In our Family, our Mom has been making them since I was little. As we all grew up watching her make

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Three people having a discussion in a modern counseling office

Honor God with Your Traditions

Write about a few of your favorite family traditions. We have a number of favorite family traditions that we practice at particular times of the year and also throughout the year. The tradition that stands out the most to me is how we worship and honor God every Sunday at

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Man Sitting on Grass Reading a Book in a Serene Field

Spending Time with God

What do you enjoy doing most in your leisure time? Today’s prompt in WordPress was a fun one to consider. I thought of all the fun things I love to do: spending quality time with my Wife, playing games with my Family, cooking, watching our favorite TV programs and movies;

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Counselor Leading Marriage And Family Counseling Session With Couples

Honor God in Everything

List five things you do for fun. In my counseling with my Clients, I often ask them to identify several interventions that they could do to develop better mental health. Sometimes, I get quizzical looks back, as they ask. “Like, what?” I then explain that doing things they enjoy will

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Couple Engaging in Marriage and Family Counseling Session on a Sofa

Immanuel, God With Us

Write about your first name: its meaning, significance, etymology, etc. Anybody who knows me, knows that I go by Manny. My official first name on my birth certificate is Manuel, which was also my Dad’s name. As a child, we had a neighbor, an older woman named Lucy, who loved

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Group Discussion in Office Setting for Relationship Counseling Upland

Loved by God, my Family, and my Friends

Can you share a positive example of where you’ve felt loved? In my life, I have always felt loved by God. As a child, I always sensed His presence in my life. Truly, I have walked with the LORD since I was at least five years old. I was born

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Therapist Engaging in a Counseling Session with a Young Client

How I Use My Christian Faith as a Therapist

As a Christian therapist, I get to meet people who are all in different places spiritually. Some of my Clients don’t know God at all, and some of them are walking closely, albeit imperfectly, with our LORD. As a Christian therapist I don’t judge anyone based on where they are

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